Friday, August 17, 2007

When Does Love Start to Stop?

Since I got home early (no traffic!) last night, I took a quick nap before having our dinner. Afterwards, aimed with nothing to do, I decided to call Nina because I do miss her and I haven't talked with anyone from college for a long time.

Since we were talking of the recent movies, both of us were very much intrigued by the movie, "A Love Story". We were actually debating who is the mistress and the real wife is between Maricel Soriano and Angelica Panganiban. Then my Mom butted in and told us that Gelai, the photoshop-enhanced woman, is indeed the real wife of Aga Muhlach. Then we made theories like "Ah, kaya pala Angelica said the line hindi mo siya kailangan, ako kailangan ko siya". You see, if she was the other woman, it seems that she's this obnoxious girl to even demand from the real wife to leave the guy right? So anyhow, I was surprised because in the movie, Angelica was younger and prettier than Maricel. So Nina, the lawyer in her defended, that circumstances like these could happen in real life. That sometimes, even when you think you are perfect enough for somebody, there are traits that a guy could see in a less-perfect woman.

Though in my opinion, and if I were the guy, WHY on Earth would I settle for something less? Why would I even stain my hands on the possible situation when its not even worth it? I am not trying to be awful here, but a friend once told me "Kung magiging other woman ka, dapat mas maging perfect ka sa real wife. Isipin mo ha, why would you make a fool of yourself and look catasthropic kung mang-aagaw ka na lang ng iba? Shempre wag mo na i-disgrace yung sarili mo. Pero kung mang-aagaw ka na nga, mukha ka pang basura e di parang pinahiya mo pa yung sarili mo, in the end, talo ka rin naman." Bad as it may seem, but it makes sense.

In my realization, I don't know how could love ever end just like that. After you have invested not only your self, but your heart and soul, some ungrateful person would just destroy you like that? I mean, you promised that you would love each other forever, and by all means, it should be for a lifetime. It is saddening to think that the foundation you have built will stumble just like that. Really, I hope that things like these shouldn't happen. That when you promised to stay, mean it. Put him or her in pedestal or just be plain fair to the person you love. Biro mo, sobrang good girl or boy yung partner mo, tapos ikaw, kung sino-sino na pala fini-flirt mo, ang sakit kaya nun. Dapat sa mga taong ganun binu-burn sa stake. Parang ginagawa sa mga witches before. Hahahaha.

Let me enlighten us all from a quote I received thru text:

People who cheat on their partners have severely dysfunctional egos. They have brains the size of miniature lemons minus the pulp and rind. They have the security of an adolescent loser nerd, pre-puberty. And they have hearts as sour and cold as chilled urine.

Ang bad ng quote no? Unless you wanted a definition for yourself like this, it is better to change. And be faithful once and for all. Remember, you do not only cheat your partner, you are also cheating yourself as well. What's the use of Karma anyway? haha.

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Am meeting my best friend this afternoon. This time, it is for real. Told her I would pick her up somewhere in Makati so she wouldn't have a hard time going out of the way just to see me. I don't know the place that well, so I have to wager on the directions by faith. Just that I'm not really that good at directions.

Anyhow, Ive seen this on my email this morning. It was sent by Kuya Neil, one of our former JournSoc President. Its really funny. The lesson? WAG MAG-ENGLISH KUNG DI NAMAN TALAGA KAYA. MAPAPAHIYA KA LANG! WAHAHAHAHA

*ehem, translator please*


THE!

We' ve been friends for a long time ago. We come from the same alma mother. Actually, our paths crossed one time on another. But it's only now that I gave him a second look. I realized that beauty is in the eyes. The pulpbits of my heart went fast, really fast. Cute pala siya. And then, he came over with me. He said, "I hope you don't mine. Can I get your number?" Nag-worry ako. What if he doesn't give it back? He explained naman na it's so we could keep intact daw. Sabi ko, connect me if i'm wrong but are you asking me ouch? Nabigla siya. Sagot niya, The! Aba! Parang siya pa ang galit! Persona ingrata!!! Ang kapal niya! I cried buckles of tears.

Na-guilty yata siya. Sabi niya, isipin mo na lang na this is a blessing in the sky. Irregardless daw of his feelings, we'll go ouch na rin. Now, we're so in love. Mute and epidemic na ang past. Thanks God we swallowed our fried. Kasi, I'm 33 na and I'm running our time. After 2 weeks, he plopped the question. "Will you marriage me?" I'm in a state of shocked. Kasi mantakin mo, when it rains, it's four! This is true good to be true. So siyempre, I said yes. Love is a many splendor.

Pero nung inaayos ko na ang aming kasal, everything swell to pieces. Nag-di-dinner kami noon nang biglang sa harap ng aming table, may babaeng humirit ng, "Well, well, well. Look do we have here." What the fuss! The nerd ng babaeng yon! She said they were still on. So I told her, whatever is that, cut me some slacks! I didn't want this to get our hand kaya I had to sip it in the bud. She accused me of steeling her boyfriend. Ats if! I don't want to portrait the role of the other woman. Gosh, tell me to the marines! I told her, "please, mine you own business!" Who would believe her anyway?

Dahil it's not my problem anymore but her problem anymore, tumigil na rin siya ng panggugulo. Everything is coming up daisies. I'm so happy. Even my boyfriend said liketwice. He's so supportive. Sabi niya, "Look at is this way. She's our of our lives."

Kaya advise ko sa inyo - take the risk. You can never can tell. Just burn the bridge when you get there. Life is shorts. If you make a mistake, we'll just pray for the internal and external repose of your soul. I second emotion.


moral of the story: don't ingles to impress :p

Actually, may kilala ko na katulad nito eh. *name withheld* hahaha. Sige, English pa, tutal magaling ka nga mag-English diba? hahahaha.

Gotta go. Feeling ko nabobo ako from what I read. hahaha

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